How to Be a Better Listener – Scientific American

During an argument a few months ago, my husband, John, accused me of being a bad listener. “Who, me?” I thought. “I interview people for a living—all I do is listen!” Later, after I calmed down, I remembered that John is actually a pretty reasonable and insightful guy—if he says he’s not feeling listened to, maybe it really is me. So, for a second opinion, I texted someone who has known me for a really long time: “John says I don’t listen. Am I hard to talk to?” Her response: “You can be, yes. Love, Mom.” And there you have it. I quit arguing and asked some experts for help. Here’s the advice that has really resonated with me. Think you don’t need it? Read on anyhow—you may be surprised.

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/how-to-be-a-better-listener/

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